This chapter begins by addressing classic modes of self
blame which could be the sticking point for many partners. "Is this
problem my fault?" She uses nice insights like “listen to your gut”
somewhat hidden in the scientific research she quotes. Then she goes into a list of all the possible
types of therapy one could pursue, almost an encyclopedic list. But then she has some really good insights
about finding yourself and making the most of your life. I found many
nice insights in this chapter hidden among the quoted research and the lists as
boring as a grocery list.
